just got back to my computer....
We can all express our opinions, and as long as we abide by the agreement that we "checked" when we registered.... and when opinions are offered with respect, then we have to extend our respect for the view of the person who posted - regardless of whether we are in agreement or not.
On another note - Mike & Woody are long time posters here on the Island, and there has always been mutual respect for each other. From getting to know Mike at the various shows in the tri-state area, I know that Asperger's Syndrome is something that he deals with every day - and as we all know in each of our lives - we all have our good days and our bad days. I also know that Woody has shown a balanced opinion when it comes to reviews.
I think the point of Woody's post was intended to be objective about the down grading of a review based upon our emotional ups and downs and not mean spirited towards Mike's emotions themselves. (Woody did mention that he feels that he himself has posted a few "in the moment" comments, too).
I know that for many who don't follow all the threads - it would be easy to take these comments out of context. But in another thread, it was pointed out:
Mike- I find it refreshing that you're open enough about dealing with life and it's up and downs, that you feel safe posting it here. Hang in there, you're on the right track. Just be careful that you give yourself some room to fail AND succeed- nobody has it all together, so don't expect that of yourself.
We should all remember that sometimes the written word comes across much differently than the same words expressed in a conversation. And no.... adding emoticons to a post doesn't convey the intention which is carried by conversational inflection and body language. Please do not jump to conclusions about another boarder's intentions in his/her post.
Some advice - if you can not "accept" someone else's opinion, and you feel the need to argue or have the last word in a thread - then I'd recommend that you slow down your reaction and think about how your written words are coming across before you click that "submit" button.
In speaking with Mike earlier this evening, we talked it thru, and so.... we'll move on to more discussion about Jessy J's music.
Thanks everyone...